Be grateful for everything you have even though you think you need more. Tell someone that you love them. Smile at everyone you meet. Wave at everyone you meet on the road. You never know how that little gesture can change someones day. Live each day like it was your last. This past week a sweet girl lost the love of her life. He went to work and I am sure she talked to him on his way home but she never thought that she would never see him again nor did their 3 little boys. He was 30 years young when he lost his life to a careless driver that pulled out in front of him. I couldnt imagine getting that phone call that my spouse wouldnt be coming home. All the thoughts running through her head, the last hug, kiss, smile, even the last fight. Wishing for just one more day one more time to tell him how much she loves him and how much he means to her. Those boys will have alot to deal with for the rest of their lives and I am sure that they are very confused but just knowing one day they will see him again and are watching them everyday helps it be a little easier. But you know that there are alot of questions running through all there minds. It breaks my heart to know that anyone would have to go through such a tragic thing especially this close to Christmas. So from today until the rest of your life let there be no regrets, no doubts or no guessing. Tell everyone how much they mean to you every chance you get just in case that may be the last time you get to see their face and touch them. Hold you children close everytime you get the chance. When they make you so mad hold them anyway. My Uncle Gerald (79) once told me "Never go to bed Anger" and I try my best to live by that sometimes it is hard but it could be harder! Just think about this when you get home tonight to your loved ones and for the rest of your life live like there is no tomorrow. May you RIP Randy Buford and watch over your family from Heaven every night you will always be missed.
Donations can be made for Randy's family at any CB&S Bank in Starkville, Eupora or Sturgis. Any little bit can help support this family. Also if you dont want to donate money the family requested that Bibles be donated in the name of Randy Buford to the First Baptist Church in Eupora ATTN: Josh Buford (his first cousin and he also works at the church) and if you cant do anything please just say a little prayer for the family as often as you think about them and their loss. Also as you hold your family a little closer tonight just for Randy. May God Bless you and yours during this Christmas Holiday and may you never have any regrets or live being ungrateful for what you DO have. <><